We live a social reality where relationships are impossible with peripherals embodied within them or things/images collected.
Common relationships are born of tradition or peripheral, meaning the outskirts which hinder real connection. We relate to peripheral via image, belief, desire, knowledge and expectation. The accumulative of a peripheral is that which you think is you, what you've been told, believe, value, faith etc. Peripheral, the things that corrupt relationships or falsely sustain them.
A relationship is impossible when we want it, desire it, or are promised it. It can't be given because it is only obtained through a natural cooperation - we are born with the intelligence to interact, it is natural, peripherals are not.
Compare a childhood relationship when no peripherals stood between you; it was an innocent, direct and joyous time. And the more we developed, the more peripherals collected within the relationship and the more complicated relationships became.
Peripherals become the relationship, the things we decide on and manage, yet these things are not a natural or intelligent cooperation. See it for yourself - what creates, confounds or destroys a relationship, but the peripherals? We've all argued before, but about what...peripheral? See it.